This way, they will know that you're interested in pursuing a conversation, and you don't run the risk of losing out on a potentially cool person. But to prevent this from happening, message them soon after you become a mutual match. If you get notifications sent to your phone, the app will let you know when a match is about to expire. We’ve found that this leads to more confident connections,” Stith says. “The ephemeral nature of the app means you’ll have less time to sit on your hands and will really be presented with a small amount of time to decide who you really want to talk to. Jennifer Stith, the VP of communications and brand development over at Bumble, tells Bustle that the whole purpose of the app is to encourage you to say something. But if you wait too long, your matches will disappear. One of the best things about Bumble is that you are the one who can start the conversation as you choose. Not Talking With Your Matches As Soon As You Get Them To give you an idea of what to avoid doing, here are a few mistakes most of us are guilty of on Bumble. Just like anything else, if you want to meet someone high quality, then it will require thoughtfully engaging people on the app, in a timely manner."
However, this isn't going to lead to meeting a great person. "Unfortunately, many people view Bumble and other dating apps as something to do to waste time. "Some research shows that a lot of people get on dating apps for weird reasons: attention, wasting time, ego boosts, etc.," Bennett says. Similarly, David Bennett, dating expert and founder of Double Trust Dating tells Bustle it's important to take swiping through Bumble seriously. So you shouldn't be using it just like you use Tinder, even if all the swiping makes you feel as though the two are similar. Yes, the two are very similar, but the app was specifically created by Wolfe, Tinder's co-founder, to give people who identify as women a dating platform of respect and autonomy. One of the most obvious? Treating Bumble like it's Tinder. (Bonus: It also boasts a female founder, Whitney Wolfe, who was an executive at Tinder before launching Bumble.)īut like most dating apps, there are still plenty of mistakes to be made when swiping along. For women seeking other people who identify as women on the app, either person has 24 hours to make the first move or that connection will disappear, too. You're still meant to swipe left or right, but if you match with another person, it's up to you to message them within 24 hours, or else the match disappears (and poof, no more chance to talk!).
Unlike Tinder, Bumble allows women to have more power when it comes to their matches. Bumble, which by many has been labeled “ The Feminist Tinder,” is not only one of my personal favorite dating apps, but it's also one of the best downloads for single people who identify as women.
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